It just occurred to me to contextualize
the notion of ‘happiness’ on this International Day of Happiness. Oftentimes,
we, in a reflex kind of way, equate ‘pleasure’ with ‘happiness’. While both are
intrinsically transitory in nature, ‘pleasure’ is infinitely more transitory,
more physical and has a greater possibility of being triggered by exogenous
forces. ‘Happiness’ is generated internally and it is a state of being. Now, constantly
doing things and engaging in acts that give one pleasure may lead to a happy
state of being, but it is not a given. If that were invariably so, wealthy and
successful people ought to be the happiest people in the world. In fact,
studies have shown that suicide rates are higher among the wealthy than the
poor, even though some studies also found that unemployed people are, in fact,
72 percent more likely to commit suicide than people who are working (the
keyword here is ‘likely’) That is enough to deconstruct the myth that money is
all that one needs to be happy. No doubt, money helps to make life more
tolerable, and by extension, can improve well-being and aid the attainment of a
state of happiness. In the same vein, conjugal bliss is not guaranteed by
affluence, as truistic as that may sound. Money has been found by numerous
studies to be an iceberg in the sea of marital concordance. One such study in
Sweden concluded that the probability of divorce increased as the woman began
to earn as much or more than their spouse. This is especially true of many Nigerian-born
couples in the diaspora. Generally speaking, marriage now seems more like a union
of financial resources than of love. The point that money is not the panacea
for happiness has never been more forcefully made.
Wouldn't it be appropriate
then to ask oneself an honest question: “What is ‘happiness’ to me?” In the
quest to understand oneself, honesty has to be at the forefront. It is not the
government’s duty to make us happy; it is only the government’s duty and
responsibility to provide an enabling environment for us to engage in the pursuit
happiness. This is a basic human right. When the government fails in that most
important of regards, it is no longer fit for purpose. Such enabling
environment encompasses areas such as gainful employment, prompt and effective
healthcare, provision of widely accessible education at all levels, efficient
and safe transport infrastructure, the provision of adequate security, and so
on. With all these tools in place, the onus now falls upon the individual to go
on the pursuit of their happiness. Indeed, a text from the American Declaration
Of Independence on July 4 1776 says it all:
“We hold these truths to be
self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their
Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and
the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are
instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the
governed, --That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these
ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute
new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its
powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety
and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established
should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all
experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils
are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they
are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing
invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute
Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government,
and to provide new Guards for their future security.……”
See? This brings me full-circle to the extremely
dire situation in Nigeria. Aren't we living under a despotic dispensation? Aren't
abuses and usurpations the order of the day? Haven’t our safety and happiness
as a people been trampled upon and severely compromised by Jonathan and his mob from hell?
Hasn't corruption eroded our confidence in the brightness and sureness of our collective
future? If the answers to these are resoundingly ‘Yes’, aren't we right then to
want to right the wrongs that have reduced the vast majority of Nigerians to
trembling wrecks and no-hopers? Isn’t it our duty to defenestrate the rapacious
and thuggish destroyers of our commonwealth? Nigerians are groaning under the
weight of unjustness and callous disregard for our safety and happiness. All
we demand is a fair chance to change the order of the day, the order of play
and the course of our history; and elect a government that would usher in a new
era of hope in these most uncertain of times. It is not fatuous to demand
change, it is our inalienable right to feel safe and possess the ability to
pursue happiness. We want a government that has humanity and humility emblazoned on its
heart, and one that understands that most soulful of Chinese proverbs: “Doing good is the greatest happiness.”
May the 28th of
March 2015 be the day that our hope is reborn, when sanity takes its pride of place
at the heart of government and probity is sat on the high table. Our destiny is in our hands at last; our golden
chance is at hand. Our resolve must overwhelm their determination to extend their evil rule.
May the good Lord bless the Federal Republic Of Nigeria and its beautiful people.
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